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Justin's arrival!

It's been too long since the last post on this site (June 2010), and so many things have happened in the meantime, the worst of which was the death of my father. I wish so much that he could have seen the pictures and video on this post, which show one of the very best things to have occurred in the last months: the birth at on Monday 1st November 10:35am (Japan Time) of Justin Duffield/Matsuo.

Here are some pictures from the first minutes of his life, plus some taken later that day, also a video taken yesterday (Tuesday) in the neonatal room. Ayumi will be in hospital until Sunday: we'll go over to Asagiri on Saturday and bring them home the next morning.










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